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Positive Illness integratieve Psychotherapie in de Matrix

  • Treatments amongst which: Hypnotherapy and EMDR
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EMDR Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

EMDR Therapy Amsterdam and online–

Healing through processing and nervous-system restoration

 

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a highly effective method for processing trauma, anxiety, stress and persistent emotional patterns.

It helps the brain reorganise memories that got “stuck”, reducing their emotional charge

and creating space for calm, clarity and inner stability.

 

“EMDR framed within a human-centred, embodied context of healing”

“A deeply attuned processing approach that meets structured EMDR with somatic presence”

“EMDR as part of a holistic unfolding — integrating body, heart, mind, and narrative”

Read more on the sister site Positive  Impulse 

Many people notice after just a few sessions that:

physical tension eases

recurring images or thoughts fade

old patterns loosen their grip

a sense of calm and trust returns

emotional resilience increases

 

During the session, rhythmic eye movements (or gentle tapping/sounds) guide the brain into forming new connections.

You remain fully present and in control while the underlying stress releases step by step.

EMDR can support:

Trauma (big or small)

Difficult childhood experiences

Anxiety, panic or blockages

Low mood or persistent negative beliefs

Burnout, overwhelm or hypersensitivity

Unexplained symptoms with an emotional root

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In safe environments, fear doesn’t disappear—it changes form.

Where danger once demanded action, safety creates space for thought… and sometimes for endless looping.

It may not be a luxury, but a shift:

from fear that moves → to fear that lingers.

 

My approach

 

In my practice, safety, warmth and genuine connection come first.

I combine EMDR with deep body awareness, therapeutic insight and a grounded presence, so the process feels supported and natural.

 

Every session is tailored to your pace, your nervous system and your needs

 

EMDR can work quickly, but what matters most is that it works deeply —

restoring not only the memory, but your strength, trust and freedom.

 

IN DEPTH EXPLORATION OF EMDR WORKINGS

real EMDR science

trauma-processing neuroscience

your gentle, poetic therapeutic style

the Positive Illness philosophy (illness as meaning, process, transformation)

✦ EMDR – When the Mind Finally Exhales

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is one of the most fascinating methods we have for transforming trauma —

not by erasing memory, but by rewiring the emotional charge that memory carries in the body.

 

Trauma is not stored as a story.

It is stored as sensation, fragmentation, and unfinished tension.

 

The nervous system holds on to what was too overwhelming to process at the time.

 

EMDR helps the system do what it originally couldn’t.

How it works – in simple, honest neuroscience

During EMDR, you follow bilateral stimulation —

eye movements, taps, or alternating tones.

This rhythmic left-right activation engages both brain hemispheres and creates a specific neurobiological state:

the emotional centers loosen their grip

the cognitive centers switch on

old memories float upward into working memory

the “sting” detaches from the image

and the brain quietly says:

“I can look at this now.”

It is not magic.

It is not hypnosis.

It is not overwriting your past.

It is the brain’s natural processing system finally getting enough space, rhythm, and oxygen

to finish what was never completed.

This is why clients often say after a session:

“The memory is still there, but it feels distant.”

“It’s like the volume is turned down.”

“The emotional weight is simply gone.”

“My body finally relaxed.”

See reviews

Why EMDR fits the philosophy of Positive Illness

 

 

In the Positive Illness view, symptoms are not mistakes.

They are attempts — attempts at protection, survival, adaptation, meaning.

 

 

 

Trauma symptoms are the nervous system’s best effort to keep you safe

with the resources it had at the time.

 

 

EMDR does not fight your symptoms.

It completes them.

 

 

It lets the old emotional charge dissolve,

so the memory becomes just that — a memory —

no longer a storm trapped in your muscles.

 

 

The beauty behind the science

 

 

Every time you recall a memory, your brain reconstructs it.

This is how all human memory works.

EMDR simply uses that natural mechanism in a controlled, therapeutic way:

 

 

 

 

 

recall → soften → reassemble → integrate.

The memory doesn’t disappear.

It just returns to the place in your mind

where it should have lived all along —

without fear, without tension, without panic.

 

**EMDR is not about reliving

Trauma is what stays stuck.

EMDR is the moment the stuckness unra

Feel free to call to taste the connection

+31648750093

or mail jovannavriend@gmail.com

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